HOW SHOULD I TESTIFY IN MY DIVORCE OR CUSTODY CASE?

Many of our clients have never testified in a court of law and have considerable anxiety about the entire court process.  The following are useful tips to help make you a star witness in your divorce or custody case.


We can help you testify effectively in your divorce and custody case.  Call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free consultation.


TELL THE TRUTH, NO LIES AND NO EXAGGERATION


To be an effective witness, you should offer the shortest and most truthful answer possible.  Always remember that lies or exaggerations are regularly exposed in court.  The trial court judge will intuitively follow the legal maxim “falsus in uno, falsus in omnibus,”  which means false in one thing, false in everything – when the Judge believes a witness has lied and then decides what has actually happened in any given case. 


JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION

Judges are annoyed by self-serving, non-responsive answers to a question.  Failure to answer the question destroys a witness’s credibility and often backfires completely.  An experienced lawyer will move to strike the unresponsive answer and re-ask the same question with the Judge’s full attention now on the issue.  You should be prepared for and anticipate detrimental questions about your case and try to answer with an appropriate response focused on the true facts and evidence of your case. 

LOOK THE JUDGE IN THE EYE WHEN YOU TESTIFY

To be an effective witness, it is important to communicate directly with the person deciding your case.  Look the judge in the eye when you testify. Try to connect with the judge.  Witnesses often respond to lawyers and forget who really matters in the courtroom – the judge.  You should explain your case carefully to the judge.  Credibility is best established by direct eye contact with the Judge.

CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS WHEN YOU TESTIFY

Most family law cases are full of emotional issues.  Unchecked emotion or sobbing hysterically through a hearing almost always damages your case.  Appropriate concern is preferable to overt anger and open hostility. Remember, uncontrolled anger or tears suggest witness instability and lack of control.  A rational, controlled presentation always prevails.

BE POSITIVE WHEN TESTIFYING


Focus on the appropriate facts of your case and remember that judges dislike unnecessary personal attacks in court.  Mudslinging and cheap shots rarely accomplish the goal of discrediting another party. Try to present unblemished factual statements on negative issues.  Let the judge make his or her own negative inferences.  It is important to always remember that a trial judge sees everything and everyone in the courtroom. This includes facial and non-verbal responses to questions.

DIFFUSE THE OPPOSING PARTY’S ARGUMENTS

Every witness has his or her own weaknesses.  You should try to relay truthful responses to explain or acknowledge potentially damaging testimony.  Focus on what you have done to correct a problem.  When negative facts are already in evidence, you should confront the testimony head-on to deny or minimize its impact.  For example, witnesses who have prior substance abuse problems should show genuine remorse and also discuss the steps taken to become sober and to avoid relapse.

LISTEN TO THE QUESTION AND THINK ABOUT YOUR RESPONSE BEFORE YOU ANSWER


It is very important to listen to the question as asked and to take the time to respond thoughtfully and factually to what is asked of you.  Impulsive responses always result in disaster.

GO WITH YOUR HORSES AND PUT YOUR BEST FOOT FORWARD

To be an effective witness, you should focus relentlessly on your case.  Go with your horses and use your best facts and evidence to support your case.  Frequently remind yourself why you are in court and the outcome you wish to achieve.  Avoid focusing on unnecessary details, minutiae and collateral unnecessary testimony.

BE THE SOURCE OF REASON

You should present the judge with cohesive solutions and be the court’s voice of reason.  Judges appreciate a responsive answer and objectively reasonable options without problems and attitudes.  Help the Judge decide your case in your favor.

PAUL F. SHERMAN IS AN EXPERIENCED AND EFFECTIVE DIVORCE AND CUSTODY LAWYER

We know you have questions, and we have answers.  If you would like to know more about testifying effectively in your divorce or family law matter, call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free consultation.

 

 

 

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Why you should hire an attorney to handle your divorce of custody case

It is quite common for couples to choose not to work with an attorney and to try to handle their divorce and custody case themselves. These couples hope to save money and feel that an attorney isn’t necessary. However, in most cases, a do-it-yourself divorce isn’t the best plan for you and your family, for reasons you may not understand at the time.

We can help you resolve your divorce and custody case. Call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free divorce and custody consultation.

IT TAKES TIME TO PROPERLY HANDLE A DIVORCE AND CUSTODY CASE.

Many of our clients are unaware of the time and effort necessary to properly handle a divorce and custody case. Although couples try to handle a divorce on their own, they simply do not have the time it takes to research the applicable divorce laws, gather all the necessary documentation, to prepare the necessary court filings and to follow through with the required court appearances. In order to obtain the best possible result on your divorce and custody case, you will need to devote a lot of time and effort to the dissolution process. You will need the advice and skill of an experienced divorce and custody attorney to properly evaluate your case objectively and help you make the difficult decisions required by a divorce and custody case.

YOU SHOULD NEVER ATTEMPT TO HANDLE A CONTESTED DIVORCE YOURSELF.

Abe Lincoln is often quoted for an old adage in law which provides that “A lawyer who represents himself has a fool for a client.” This is especially true for any divorce and custody case. It is extremely difficult to remove yourself from the inevitable emotional turmoil caused by divorce and custody cases. Divorce and custody cases commonly generate frustration and anger between the parties. This results in the inability to think clearly. If you are angry or frustrated with your spouse and cannot agree on the terms of your divorce or custody case, you should absolutely not attempt to handle your case without an attorney. Many parties fall into the trap of agreeing to something just to get the case over with, just to release the anxiety caused by the divorce and custody case, or just to make the proceedings stop. Inevitably this results in a poor choice for you and your family. Moreover, the emotional components of divorce often result in neglect and the failure to address important issues without the assistance of an experienced divorce attorney. A skilled divorce attorney can insulate you from contact with the other party and provide you rational, objective advice in how to handle your case.

More importantly, most parties do not have the education and experience necessary to properly evaluate their case and to draft the documents necessary to effectively resolve their case. Most do-it-yourself divorce judgments are fatally defective and simply unenforceable. This requires the parties to spend substantial amounts of money to correct mistakes which should never have been made in the first place and sometimes results in an inability to recover your fair share of the marital estate.

A SKILLED DIVORCE ATTORNEY IS AWARE OF LONG-TERM CONSEQUENCES YOU MAY NOT EVEN CONSIDER.

Couples attempting to resolve divorce issues on their own certainly do not have the knowledge and experience necessary to understand the long-term implications of a divorce. Most couples are unaware of important tax implications involved in the divorce. Most couples do not have sufficient knowledge or skill to draft judgments which are enforceable in court and allow the court to address issues which will inevitably arise regarding disagreements on the sale of the family home, the division of retirement assets, the complicated division of stock options; and other important considerations. Moreover, most couples do not have the experience necessary to draft enforceable parenting plans or enforceable child support agreements. Many of our clients have considerable guilt surrounding the circumstances of their divorce and custody case and make decisions which are not rationally based or in the best interests of their family. Due to the complexity of a divorce, it can be extremely difficult to cover all of your bases without the guidance of a skilled divorce attorney who understands the law and has the experience necessary to protect you and your family.

PAUL F. SHERMAN IS A SKILLED AND EFFECTIVE DIVORCE AND CUSTODY ATTORNEY.

If you are considering divorce in Oregon, Washington or California, we invite you to contact the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman to obtain expert advice on your divorce or custody case.

We know you have questions, we have answers. If you would like to have more information on how to handle your divorce or custody case, call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free divorce and custody consultation.

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How do I get an Immediate Danger Order – What is Emergency Custody?

Many of our clients need an immediate change of custody or an immediate suspension of parenting time. It can be extremely frustrating for them to learn that it can take weeks or even months to get into court on a custody or parenting time issue. This feeling is compounded when the client believes their child is in danger in the other parent’s care.

We can help you get an emergency custody order. Call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free emergency child custody consultation.

Emergency custody orders are useful in cases involving severe drug and alcohol problems, in cases of sexual abuse, in cases where the custodial parent is incarcerated or where the other party is suffering from severe emotional or mental issues resulting in hospitalization or a complete breakdown. Courts will generally protect children in each of these situations.

WHAT IS AN IMMEDIATE DANGER ORDER?

As a general rule, a court cannot issue an emergency custody order without both parties having an opportunity to be heard. This requires that a motion to obtain custody must be served on the opposing party and a hearing time must be set with the court for the matter to be resolved.

An important exception to this rule is an “Immediate Danger Order.” Temporary emergency custody orders are authorized by ORS 107.097(3). This provision requires that the court find that the child is in immediate danger based on a sworn statement by the moving party and testimony that a child is in immediate danger.

What is immediate danger? Immediate danger means that there is a clear and present risk that a child will be physically injured or neglected in such a way as to endanger the child. The risk here generally involves physical danger and “immediate” means now.

The evidence used by the court to support a finding of immediate danger must be true and credible and must be based on the moving party’s actual observations and personal knowledge. A mere assertion that the other parent is abusing drugs, abusing alcohol, or has done these behaviors in the past is not sufficient to show an immediate danger. Likewise, the mere fact that a parent is ill, hospitalized or homeless may not create an immediate danger depending on the age of the child and the overall circumstances of the case. An immediate danger order requires solid evidence that there is an immediate genuine risk of physical harm to the child. If a proper showing of immediate danger is not supported by the sworn testimony and evidence presented to the court, the court must deny the motion for emergency custody.

CONTACT PAUL F. SHERMAN FOR EXPERT ADVICE ON EMERGENCY CUSTODY AND PARENTING TIME ORDERS

We know you have questions and we have answers. If you would like to learn more about immediate danger orders, call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free telephone consultation.

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HOW DO I PREPARE FOR DIVORCE?

Many of our clients have asked our office what they should know before filing for divorce. Before springing into action, you should take a moment to prepare yourself.

The dissolution process can be complicated and extremely difficult for those involved. It is important to have your ducks in a row to achieve the best possible outcome for your case. Preparation helps reduce the stress associated with divorce and will help reduce the cost.

For a more detailed discussion on how to prepare for divorce call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free divorce or child custody consultation.

TRY TO KEEP CUSTODY OUT OF THE EQUATION.

Removing the children from the divorce can greatly simplify the dissolution process. It is always better to come to an agreement with your spouse regarding how you would like to raise your children and what is the best parenting plan for your household. Sometimes this is simply not possible and a custody battle is inevitable, but for most people, an agreement on custody and parenting time is the best solution to minimizing the stress and cost of dissolution.

Generally, the court will review the status quo when making custody determinations. Parents who are accustomed to spending substantial time with their kids should insist on continuing to do so.

When one spouse leaves the children and the other spouse has physical custody, they are establishing that this parent is the primary caregiver for the children and the children’s best interests are served by continuing to reside with this parent. Thus, it is important to maintain the parenting time and parenting practices you are accustomed to.

Any substantial gaps in time with the children can become a major hurdle to overcome if you want to see your children more frequently than every other weekend and the occasional holiday. The children are not yo-yos and the courts will not deviate substantially from the status quo that was established during the marriage or relationship which gave rise to the child.

It is extremely important to continue to reside in the same household with the children as much as possible or to work out a parenting plan which recognizes the time you have spent with your child. The parenting plan should incorporate your usual practices, such as taking the children to school, attending their practices for various sports and activities and maintaining the time the children are accustomed to spending with each parent.

YOU NEED TO SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN

It is essential that you continue to be an active participant in your children’s life. Stay involved (or get involved) with their daily activities, take them to school, help them with their homework and get to know their teachers and friends. The court will award parents who are actively involved with their children substantial parenting time. It is always in the best interest and welfare of the children to spend time with the parent who participates in their lives on a regular basis.

It is important to know that each parent has an equal right to access the children’s school, education, medical care and any other important documentation. This, however, requires you to take an active role in determining what is going on with the children. Some parents adopt the role of working full time and allowing the other parent to spend the majority of their time raising their children. While this may work in an integrated household, it is simply a lesson for disaster in the dissolution process. The parent who does not spend time with their children will not be awarded custody or substantial parenting time. You need to get involved and stay involved with your children as much as possible.

In determining child custody, the court’s primary concern is to act in the best interests and welfare of the children and to cause as little disruption to their daily lives and routines as possible. If you are already actively involved in your children’s daily lives, activities and routines, the court will want to maintain that relationship so long as it is healthy and positive for the children.

YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND SPOUSAL AND FAMILY SUPPORT

Maintaining the family household is the primary concern when it comes time to calculate spousal support. Many of our clients vacate the marital home and unintentionally establish the need and requirement of spousal or family support.
Before obtaining your own apartment or other residence, you need to have a firm understanding of the costs associated with maintaining the family household. You should itemize all hard costs associated with running the household including the rent or mortgage, utilities, insurance, vehicle costs, food, medical expenses and all other expenses of the household. You can obtain an outline of the required information from a Uniform Support Declaration from this office. The court will then analyze the amount of income flowing into the marriage to determine what is necessary to maintain the family household and will then order an appropriate level of support.

It is important to be realistic when contemplating vacating the family residence and obtaining alternative housing. It is also important not to live unrealistically, such as on a friend’s couch or with your parents unless it is impossible to do otherwise. By maintaining a separate, substandard residence, you are establishing an ability to support two residences, regardless of the effect it is having on your personal life.

The calculation of an appropriate spousal support award is not just a crap shoot and requires the advice of a skilled spousal support attorney. Judges have a great deal of discretion in awarding spousal and family support. The results can be devastating if an accurate picture of the parties’ financial situation isn’t presented properly to the court.

The standard in all dissolution cases is the principle of what is just and proper under the circumstances. The court will not willingly place one party in substantial hardship over the other. Unlike child support, there is not a firmly established guideline for determining an award of spousal support. It is absolutely essential that you work with an experienced family law attorney to ensure an equitable amount of spousal support is awarded. Being unprepared can result in bankruptcy and financial ruin.

FOCUS ON YOUR FINANCES

Other than the children, the greatest concern of most parties facing divorce is protecting their finances. While you should anticipate that the marital assets will be divided by the court, there are, however, several different ways to keep your head above water through the dissolution process.

For many people, getting their finances in order is always a tricky business. Here, knowledge is key. Get to know your finances and the cost to run your household. Know the amount of money coming in and going out on a monthly basis. Know where there is fluff and where there is no room for cuts. Knowing what to expect on a monthly basis will substantially reduce the amount of anxiety you are feeling throughout the divorce.

Getting to a quick and easy financial solution will greatly reduce the costs of a divorce and the headaches associated with trying to maintain two separate households. It is essential to discuss your situation with a skilled divorce attorney who understands how divorce will affect your financial picture and will be able to give you specific advice on how to protect yourself and your assets to the greatest extent possible.

Establishing separate accounts and credit cards should be the starting point. Getting off credit is essential to saving the family finances. Paying off credit cards and loans in full and closing the accounts will limit your responsibility after the divorce.

The court will generally award a party any debt incurred after separation and will split marital debt on an equitable basis. So, get a grip on what you owe and a plan to get it paid as soon as possible. People who avoid taking control of their finances or who do not pay taxes for several years are asking for disaster. There is simply no excuse for not knowing the finances of the household.

Having your finances in order is essential if you are contemplating divorce. It is beneficial to open your own checking, savings, and retirement accounts. Further, it is essential that you act promptly when the issue of divorce becomes inevitable. When a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage is filed, the court can enter a Restraining Order to prevent the dissipation of assets. Otherwise, once the money is gone from a checking account, it is gone for good and generally cannot be recovered.

Take steps to protect yourself and your family as soon as possible. Failure to act can have a devastating impact on the bottom line. This is one area where it is imperative that you have a clear understanding of your circumstances and how divorce will impact your financial lifestyle.

It is also important to get organized before filing for divorce. You need to obtain tax returns, pay stubs, retirement plans, wills and insurance. You need to obtain documentation regarding any real property the parties may own, such as the underlying sales file with the title company. A skilled family law attorney is essential in helping you organize yourself for the dissolution process. Having a solid understanding of your finances and the underlying documentation is an excellent way to reduce your stress level and keep the costs of the dissolution at a minimum.

USE SOCIAL MEDIA WITH CAUTION

Many people fail to realize that social media can have a substantial and devastating impact on the outcome of a divorce. Let’s face it – if you do not want what you have written to be placed on the chalkboard before the class, then don’t post it on social media.

The impact of social media is frequently overlooked by parties preparing for a divorce. Your Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumbler and other social media accounts are great platforms for providing evidence in your case.

The parties involved in the divorce process should simply disengage or close their social media accounts. Too many people use social media to vent about their spouse or problems in their lives. If you are going through a divorce, those photos and status updates can be used as evidence in your case. Never publish photographs of yourself partying with your friends or family during the divorce. Never make a post regarding drugs or alcohol usage.

Any person who believes that they can rely on the security settings for social media to protect them is simply a fool. Your friends and family can and will provide your Facebook posts to your spouse if they are detrimental to your children.

Keep your personal information private for the duration of your divorce; and, avoid the urge to comment on your soon-to-be ex on any social platform. Social media information is not private and will be ordered to be disclosed if it has relevance on custody or dissolution issues.

Keep texting to a minimum. Many of our clients make horrible errors in judgment when texting their spouses or significant others. Texts made while angry or upset should simply be deleted before they are sent. Again, use the principle that if you are not comfortable having your text blown up to the size of a poster, simply don’t send the text.

CONTACT PAUL F. SHERMAN FOR EXPERT ADVICE ON YOUR DIVORCE AND CUSTODY ISSUES

The dissolution process is never easy. Solid preparation for the divorce process is something that should not be overlooked or avoided. Going into a divorce with a plan and a strategy can save you substantial emotional and financial pain.

We know you have questions and we have answers. If you would like more information about what you should do to prepare for a dissolution or custody case, call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free divorce and custody consultation.

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WHAT CAN I DO TO ENFORCE MY PARENTING TIME?

Our clients often ask what to do when their parenting time is being denied. The first step in any parenting time case is to determine if there is a valid court order or judgment which provides for parenting time. If there is a valid court order, the next step is to determine whether the parenting time as specified in the judgment or court order is being denied.

There are generally two methods to enforce a valid parenting time order: (1) a motion to enforce parenting time; or (2) a contempt proceeding. Some of the differences between the two procedures are outlined below.

For a more detailed discussion call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free parenting time enforcement consultation.

AN EXPEDITED HEARING IS REQUIRED FOR ENFORCEMENT OF PARENTING TIME PROCEDURES

The enforcement of parenting time process generally requires the court to schedule a hearing within 45 days. This is referred to as expedited parenting time.  In many jurisdictions, this may be the fastest way to obtain parenting time.

In contempt proceedings, the hearing is usually held by the judge who issued the order or judgment. The case is scheduled on that judge’s calendar docket along with all the other judge’s cases. Given the judge’s calendar, it may take longer to appear before the judge in a contempt proceeding than it would in an enforcement of parenting time proceeding.

Again, this will depend on the jurisdiction in which your case arises.  In many jurisdictions, such as Multnomah County, a judge will reserve jurisdiction on the case after one hour. In other jurisdictions such as Clackamas County, the judges rotate regardless.

WHAT RELIEF IS AVAILABLE IN CONTEMPT AND ENFORCEMENT PROCEEDINGS

In an enforcement of parenting time proceeding, the court has the authority:

• To create a more detailed parenting time schedule; to impose additional terms and conditions on the existing parenting time order;

• To order additional parenting time to compensate for a wrongful denial of parenting time;

• To order the violating party to post a bond or securities;

• To order the offending party to attend counseling or educational classes that focus on the impact the violation of parenting time has on the children; and

• To award attorneys fees and costs incurred in enforcing the parenting time.

ORS 107.435 provides for additional remedies the court may order in an enforcement of parenting time proceeding. You can review the Oregon statutes on our website.

The contempt statutes are set forth in ORS 39.145, et. seq. Additional rules which govern contempt proceedings are set forth in the Oregon Uniform Trial Court Rules. The remedies available in the contempt proceeding include:

• Any order the court feels necessary to ensure compliance with a prior court order;

• Remedial sanctions to compensate for the contempt;

• Attorney fees and costs incurred in purging the contempt; and

• In extreme cases, confinement in jail.

CONTEMPT REQUIRES A HIGHER BURDEN OF PROOF

The burden of proof in a contempt proceeding is “by clear and convincing” evidence and requires a willful disobedience of a prior court order or judgment.

The burden of proof in an enforcement proceeding is a “preponderance” of the evidence . Quite often it is beneficial to commence both an enforcement and contempt proceeding to obtain all of the remedies to which you are entitled.

PAUL F. SHERMAN IS A SKILLED AND EXPERIENCED PARENTING TIME ENFORCEMENT ATTORNEY

The rules and procedures in filing enforcement of parenting time and contempt proceedings are complicated and require a skilled and experienced parenting time enforcement attorney.

We know you have questions and we have answers. If you would like to know more about parenting time enforcement or remedial contempt, call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free parenting time enforcement consultation.

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How do I get help for serious injury or death caused by a drunk, intoxicated or impaired driver?

Even though substantial efforts have been made to keep drunk drivers off our roads, every year thousands of Americans are killed or seriously injured by drunk, intoxicated or otherwise impaired drivers. This is especially true during the holidays when many people recklessly drive drunk or impaired. At the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman we know how devastating a serious drunk driving accident can be for the victim and his or her family.

Our experienced drunk driver accident attorneys take time to thoroughly investigate your case.  We have earned recognition for our compassion, integrity, and effectiveness in helping our clients receive the just compensation they may be entitled to after suffering the devastating effects of a drunk driver accident.

Let us help with your drunk driver accident. Call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free drunk, intoxicated or impaired driver accident consultation.

PAUL F. SHERMAN IS A SKILLED AND EXPERIENCED DRUNK DRIVER ACCIDENT ATTORNEY

If you have suffered an injury or an accident involving a drunk or intoxicated driver, or if you have lost a loved one in a DUII accident, contact the drunk driver accident attorneys of the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman. Don’t settle with an insurance company until you have talked to us about what your injuries or loss will mean to you and your family. Let our effective and experienced representation make a difference for you and your family.

CONTACT PAUL F. SHERMAN FOR EXPERT ADVICE ON YOUR DRUNK DRIVER ACCIDENT LITIGATION

We have helped our clients obtain extraordinary results in drunk driving cases involving:

  • Wrongful death claims
  •  Serious injury claims
  • Truck and commercial vehicle accidents
  • Injuries to children
  • Pedestrian accidents
  • Bicycle accidents
  • Uninsured or underinsured accidents

We know you have questions and we have answers. If you would like to know more about effective representation for accidents involving drunk, intoxicated or impaired drivers, call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free drunk driving accident consultation.

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How do I get Expedited Parenting Time Enforcement in Oregon?

Oregon provides for expedited parenting time enforcement for parents who are being deprived of parenting time set forth in a judgment or order. Each judicial district in Oregon is required to establish an “expedited parenting time enforcement procedure” and provide forms for that purpose. ORS 107.434(1).

Let us help you enforce your parenting time. Call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free parenting time enforcement consultation.

When a violation of parenting time or substantial violations of the parenting plan occur, a party may file a motion alleging the violation or violations and requesting the court to order the parties to appear to show cause why the parenting time should not be enforced. When filing this motion, the party must include a copy of the current order establishing parenting time or the parenting plan. ORS 107.434(1)(a).

An Order to Show Cause requires the parties to appear at a specific time and show cause why the parenting time should not be enforced in a specific manner. The remedies provisions of ORS 107.434 provides extensive remedies for substantial parenting time violations. In addition to any remedy that the court may impose to enforce the parenting plan, the court may do the following:

1) Modify the provisions relating to the parenting plan by (a) “[s]pecifying a detailed parenting time schedule”; (b) “[i]mposing additional terms and conditions on the existing parenting time schedule”; or (c) “[o]rdering additional parenting time, in the best interests of the child, to compensate for wrongful deprivation of parenting time,” ORS 107.434(2)(a);

(2) “Order the party who is violating the parenting plan provisions to post bond or security,” ORS 107.434(2)(b);

(3) “Order either or both parties to attend counseling or educational sessions that focus on the impact of violation of the parenting plan on children,” ORS 107.434(2)(c);

(4) “Award the prevailing party expenses, including, but not limited to, attorney fees, filing fees and court costs, incurred in enforcing the party’s parenting plan,” ORS 107.434(2)(d);

(5) “Terminate, suspend or modify spousal support,” ORS 107.434(2)(e);

(6) “Terminate, suspend or modify child support,” ORS 107.434(2)(f); and

(7) “Schedule a hearing for modification of custody as provided in ORS 107.135(11),” ORS 107.434(2)(g).

Any enforcement by the court that includes termination, suspension, or modification of child support must be consistent with ORS 107.431. ORS 107.434(2)(f).

PAUL F SHERMAN IS A SKILLED AND EXPERIENCED PARENTING TIME ENFORCEMENT ATTORNEY

We know you have questions and we have answers.  If you would like to know more about parenting time enforcement call the Law Offices of Paul F Sherman at (503) 223-8441 or Contact Us for a free parenting time consultation.

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HOW TO AVOID HAVING THE PLAN ADMINISTRATOR REJECT YOUR QDRO

As a general rule a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is necessary to divide retirement benefits following entry of a divorce judgment. The starting point is to obtain an approved Order form directly from the Plan administrator. The order can then be tailored to your specific decree.

Let us help you with your Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO). Contact us or call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 for a free Qualified Domestic Relations Order consultation or for assistance in dividing your retirement benefits.

A common mistake that many attorneys make is thinking that if a judge orders it, then the Plan must comply. This is simply not true – the Plan Administrator has the final say about a QDRO.  The Plan simply cannot provide any benefit that is not available under the terms of the Plan. There are many reasons why proposed QDRO’s are rejected. The more common ones are as follows:

• Referencing the wrong plan name.
• Submitting the wrong type of QDRO for the Plan.
• Failure to address increases or decreases in a defined contribution plan.
• Incorporating an invalid valuation date.
• Failing to include beneficiary language for defined contribution plans.
• Improperly dividing a percentage and a dollar amount.
• Selecting a disallowed form of benefit designation for a defined benefit plan.
• Failing to indicate from what Plan payments will be paid.
• Defining a form of payment that is inconsistent with the Plan guidelines.

Drafting an acceptable QDRO requires working with the Plan Administrator and preparing a QDRO that complies with your company’s retirement plan.

PAUL F. SHERMAN IS A SKILLED QDRO AND RETIREMENT BENEFIT ATTORNEY.

We know you have questions and we have answers. If you would like to know more information about preparing a Qualified Domestic Relations Order or how to divide your retirement benefits.  Contact Us or call the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 for a free qualified domestic relations order consultation.

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Wrongful Death in Oregon

The Oregon Legal Guide

PORTLAND WRONGFUL DEATH ATTORNEY

Suffering the loss of a loved one due to the negligence or wrongful conduct of another is one of life’s most devastating experiences  Attorney Paul F. Sherman fully understands the delicate balancing act that is necessary to compassionately represent grieving families while aggressively representing their interests.  The wrongful death lawyers at the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman understand a family’s need to obtain justice and fair compensation.

Let us help your family with your wrongful death or serious injury claim.  Contact Us at the Law Offices of Paul F. Sherman at (503) 223-8441 for a free wrongful death or serious personal injury consultation.

PAUL F. SHERMAN IS A SKILLED WRONGFUL DEATH LAWYER

Insurance companies often try to quickly settle wrongful death claims.  These settlement offers tend to have little relation to the needs of the surviving family or the value of their case.  They are…

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